Because Valentine’s Day is all about love, it gives you the perfect opportunity to create more love in your family, not only between parent and child, but also between the children as well. It is a perfect time to remind and teach them to care for each other.
Sibling rivalry is quite concrete. Teaching your children to love their brothers and sisters is important to have well-rounded children and an eternal home. Looking for ways to cultivate this love can be hard, yet it is possible. You have a big influence. Here are some ways to help your children love each other.
- Set an example
Children pay attention. If you show them the way how to love each others, they will imitate what you do. Demonstrating negative behaviors, such as fighting or name-calling, will be replicated by your little ones. However, don’t place the blame on yourself for your children’s quarrels. Your role is important, but it is not all they are influenced by.
- Love them equally
Just like number one, demonstrating love to your children is a way to teach them to love. Showing them love, equally, will keep them from jealousy, which gives them the ability to love freely. If they feel loved, they will show love to others as well.
- Teach them patience
Patience is a virtue. It’s not easy to come by, but requires self-control and understanding. Especially for older siblings, patience be frustrating. By teaching patience, children will have a greater understanding and tolerance for their “annoying” siblings.
- Cultivate Playtime
Playing together is the perfect way to cultivate loving relationships. Playing is how children learn social skills. When they have fun together, they are learning about each other and how to relate. Of course, siblings’ playing leaves the potential for nearly catastrophic moments, but those are when you, as a parent, can step in and mediate a situation.
- Teach them to share
Sharing toys, activities, or friends is another great way to teach them to love one another. Once they’re in something together—spending time, creating memories, and becoming involved with others —they will learn to love and appreciate each other. They will learn to act as a team.
- Create bonding experiences
Teach them to depend on one another. Give them chores to do together. Bonding activities will help them to rely on each other. This dependence is a sign of love. It makes them realize they’re not alone. They need each other.
- Teach them selflessness
Children have a concept that their things belong to their own self —whether toys, friends, or space. Teaching them that their stuff is less important than people is teaching them love. Instruct them to put others first in all things. Doing favors, helping with their sibling’s chores, or spending time together are all good examples of selflessness. Exemplify these traits and continue to enforce them in your home.
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